Frequently Asked Questions
How do I search for other users? - Click Search Profiles in the upper right hand corner on any page.
How do I send messages? - First, you must be logged in with a username and password, then you can click Send Message on anyone's profile, under their picture, to send them a private message.
How do I reply to messages? - Login to the site then click on the envelope icon in the top menu bar to reply to messages. You can not respond to messages by just replying to our notification emails.
How do I upload more photos? - Click the Create new album link in your profile or click on the Tools menu in the top menu bar, select Photos, then click the Create new album link there. Once your album is created you can upload photos and select one as an album cover, too.
Why do I have to validate my email address by clicking a link? To stop spam and misdirected email.
Can you notify me of new messages? - Yes, go to Settings in the top menu bar, select Notifications, and check the box next to Email to receive notifications when there is a new message in your inbox.
Why did my messages disappear? - Spammers sometimes target this site and if we find a spam account, we delete messages they sent. It is possible you will notice missing messages as a result.
How do I delete my account? - After you login click on Profile then Edit Profile and click the Remove My Profile From System button.
What is MTF? - Male to female transgender women (who are excluded on most free dating sites).
What is FTM? - Female to male transgender men (who are also excluded on most free dating sites).
What is transgender? - Click here for a more detailed discussion on the subject than I can provide.
Comments
Can we have a place to advertise for roommates?? The old site helped many of us be able to find safe places to live ad work.
Hmm, I think I can add that back. I will need to look into it.
Hi I'm having trouble uploading pics........what do I do? Thank you
FYI, we just added Roommates as a new category for ads.
Hi Lauren, per our discussion it sounds like the photo uploaded, there was just a strange delay.
Could you please add a "maximum size" comment to the entry fields (or error messages) associated with profile "Favorite Things, Favorite Movies, Favorite Books" and such? I'm being told my entries are too verbose, but it DOESN'T tell what the maximum actually is. (Very frustrating..) Thanks for considering it!
How do i "un-follow" someone???
when you visit someones profile who you are following you will see an option to unfollow them where there was an option to follow them before you did and you can also do so from the main menu if you go to tools then following
Wish I Could Check Messages By State Or Location .
Hello. I am a bit confused. I am trying to upload a photo. However, it asks for image url. I do not have a specific website with my photos. I have them on my computer. I am used to the traditional image upload process. I would like help with the photo uploads please.
When it asks for the image location it is asking for the file location on your computer, not a URL. If you click the Browse button it helps you find it by browsing folders so you don't have to type it.
There is still the issue with maximum comment size. Hoping it will be solved when I go to Elgg 1.8.
how do you delete albums, i have two empty albums, why is this web site not user friendly
Ummm, I cant add any pics to my profile? Any reason why? I wont get any messages until I can post a few ^_^ I would love it if you could fix this ASAP. Thanks ^_^
Jessica