understand that there Is everybody for somebody I have been on this site and befriended people and requested friendships.I have talked to some good people and some people that have me scratching my head.this site Is supposed to be a site where you can meet a transgendered Man or Lady but yet, I have never encounter so much hatred or mistrust.I can`t pretend to know how hard It was and Is to make your transition. the ridicule ,the stares the whispers,but you HAD THE COURAGE TO LIVE YOUR DREAMS. How I envy your Freedom but with that some of you have become so jaded that you don`t trust anybody that has says they just want to be friend, because you think a person has alterior motive .I will be the first one to tell you I am jealous of you,jealous of your courage jealous of your freedom.I am damaged goods"I know this this and I admit It to anyone I have talked to on this site. I am not rich nor poor but will not go to a paid website to meet someone for a quickie.I am trying the best I can to navigate between what society says,and what my heart desires "Truly" I am starting to lose hope ,a friend that at least I thought was a friend told me that she cannot be my friend anymore becuase I have been M.I.A. for weeks, I am looking for a better job and have not been on this site, and for that I am sorry. but In the same  token I would not think that Is a reason to not be my friend,but I care for her and wish her well she Is a GREAT LADY as for me I am thinking about deleting my profile because It seems that people are so mistrusting that they think I want something,when I want NOTHING but your friendship.