I've been dating TGs for 33 years, and it's pretty simple why actual dates in public are a rarity:
TGs are very self-conscious how they look in public, and won't go out if they don't feel they're pretty.
Most men with Klienfelter's go through the same trials of confusion, self-identification, and validation as I have and it's not surprising to me at all that nearly half of us do chose to transition.Relationships are still a hurdle. I usually stick to dating bisexual women because in my experiences, straight women beat-feet just as soon as I have to explain my condition.