Many tend to expect a transwoman to be this ultra feminine looking, dressing, and acting woman something that men don't expect nor demand from cis women. Non passable transwomen are often judged harshly by trans attracted men.
Lastly, I agree when trans attracted men try to attack non passable women and the girls that were more fortunate to take their tran$ition to the next level sit back and say nothing are also part of the problem!
One of my favorite writers says, "For non conformity society whips you with its displeasure". Over the years I discovered things like folk guitar, writing, drawing, photography and running and biking.