...It would seem to me that anyone subscribing to a dating site would want to shine the best possible light that they could upon themselves. With that said, it amazes me that people don't respond to emails even if it is only to say..."we are not a match".  When I think this thru, would I really want to be with someone that hasn't the grace or maturity to respond to emails and treat people with dignity, I doubt it.  It further surprises me that on a TG site like this, when dealing with TG's who have felt years of discrimination and prejudices that they would want to be treated with respect and decency.....why not do the same to others?