In my opinion, finding a date for myself, a transgender woman, could be quiet the challenge. But what is a date for me? what is a date for you? For me a date is the aftermath of email exchanges from social sites such as TGPersonals. Such messaging may lead to online chats and phone calls, until finally we meet up for coffee, dinner, or a drink...or all of the above :-P

The first stage of my online communication usually take less than a week, for if it goes longer, it may turn into nothing but requests of personal photos and cyber sex chats. Neither which interest me. Now remember, this is considering I'm communicating with locals in my area within 100 miles. For a man, I will drive to the edge of... i5, connecting to some other local freeway. Sorry guys, I simply can't drive to NY!

   Now what does a date involve for me? I ask this and share it because many guys have asked. Their assumption is that I may be demanding, but guys, never assume that, always do what you think is best for the two of you and see what turns out. First in most, be a gentleman, whether you're attracted or not to your date. When it comes to a date for me, simplicity and fun are what gets my most attention.

   First we meet at a place where we can consume something light as we mingle within the murmurs of the crowds. We check each other out, and then, after we're done with our little snacks, we go for a little stroll on the streets of Seattle. Under the glare of the moon, we cross a little park and then become enchanted by the presence of our own company. These may take us to the point of loud or whispering laughs, then to flirts, and then finally to the actual declaration of our intentions! That's when we can talk freely about what we want from each other. Then we can flirt a little closer, he can kiss me, nibble my ears around my earrings, until finally we are sure it is a date to spark many more to come. Now that's a date for me...anything extra will be the icing on the cake!

Now, if anyone in my area is interested in a nice tgirl who loves the company of a man, feel free to pursue some of my text into reality for our first date! ...Kisses...Lisa Thomas