Why Dating or meeting friends for a Trans-person is so difficult?
Hi everybody! I just want know why meeting others either Transgender people like myself, or men is so difficult because most of the people that I meet in dating website the only thing the want is play on the web-camera . Also when you go out with men they have this ridicules idea that we are going to have sex the first date. Finally, why men specially act so strange tour trans-woman, it is so obvious that they are so worry that their friends would label them gay by their friends of family if they encounter us together by accident. AS a result, if you are so uncomfortable and insecure do us all a favor and don’t waist anybody's time.
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I've been dating TGs for 33 years, and it's pretty simple why actual dates in public are a rarity:
TGs are very self-conscious how they look in public, and won't go out if they don't feel they're pretty. Many have true feelings of safe being while in public, the fear of being read by the wrong people and the result from it, and I can completely understand why a M2F would not want to go out and public for that very reason.
As for men, they talk big but aren't with chicken poop. They're too self conscious being seen in public with a TG who might be read. Frankly, most TGs have more guts and courage on their worst day than most men do on their best day. A TG faces many risks. Men do not.
Men could make it easier for a TG to want and accept a date in public if men would get out of the closet and ignore their unfounded fears.
However, TGs have to step up too. There are some men out there who are the real deal and too often TGs pass up an opportunity to fulfill what they want.
I don't know things are for genetic women or cis women and I not going to pretend either,, also I am not trying to generalize men either am just talking about my own experiences in the dating department; I am sure there are got to be same transwomen and men that are been able to have a normal date or relationship with each other.... It is not happened to me yet!
Hello and I can appreciate your feelings in regards to meeting serious and potential gentleman interested in more than online relationships. As an admirer of tg women in and more importantly out of the bedroom,I find it equally as difficult to meet women who are seeking something long term