I was born and raised as a male...but my body doesn't fit my mind, so I am transitioning. The social norm for my entire life was to act masculine, so now I have to reteach myself how I should be acting if I don't want to make myself look out of place; kind of what you are describing.
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Okay, I know some people are into hot, but it got way too hot out there for me. There is no winter. It never gets colder than jacket-cold. It starts getting hot early, can easily hit 110+ degrees (F) by June, and can still be pushing 90 degrees (F) at midnight.