Such was the case when I happened upon an old church along the side of a highway while driving cross-country for my brother's wedding, where I was to be the best man. I needed a break to stretch my legs, and the place looked to be sturdy enough, so I decided to pull over and check it out.

If these men are attracted to what happens to be between your legs and that's not a part of yourself that you feel good about, then it seems to me that the two of you are at odds from the beginning.