If you receive a generic message that does not mention your name or any details about you, from someone who does not live close to your geographic area, and they want you to contact them directly, by phone or text or email instead of using the site for some reason, in their very first email, it is most likely a con artist.

Now, if anyone in my area is interested in a nice tgirl who loves the company of a man, feel free to pursue some of my text into reality for our first date! ...Kisses...Lisa Thomas  

Casual sex with an acquaintance, or a total stranger is arranged with an exchange of mobile text messages. Sometimes, knowing looks are enough to access sex in a dark alley.