Frequently Asked Questions
What is cis? Cis is a common abbreviation for cisgender which describes a person whose gender identity corresponds with their biological sex assigned at birth.
What is trans? Trans is a common abbreviation for transgender which describes a person whose gender identity does not correspond with their biological sex assigned at birth.
What is non binary? Non binary describes a person whose gender identity does not fit into the traditional male or female divisions at all.
I live outside the US, why is my zip code not working? - The search function only accepts US zip codes so all other users should just leave the zip code field blank.
How do I upload more photos? - Click the Create new album link in your profile or click on the Photos menu in the top menu bar, then click the Create new album link there. Once your album is created you can upload photos and select one as an album cover, too.
Why do some messages disappear? - Sometimes con artists target our site and we delete their messages.
How do I delete my account? - After you login click on Account then Settings and next Delete my account.
Comments
So when i try and upload a picture it tells me the file size is too big at 3.8mb and that the max size is 2mb. But it also says that the max file size for pictures is 10mb further up.
Is this correct?
And help please?
When will my profile picture show up
It tells me I have message but when I checked there aren't any messages anybody know y and y so difficult to navigate???
I'm having difficultly finding people in my area
how can I unblock someone again
As stated on our homepage our site and app are "100% Free and Always Will Be".
Hi Tim, you can open the profile in a new window so the Matches page stays where you left off, this works in a desktop browser by right clicking or a mobile browser by holding down your finger on the photo to get a prompt.
Does not work in the mobile app, but is one of several things we hope to improve in the app.
I can't seem to access any matches, searches of profiles etc. Every time I press search it comes back with 'none found' but ppl are contacting me
Where are ones "sent" messages stored? Can't find any prompt, or any queue of them with in-mail.
Hi. I'm wondering if it would-be possible to 'reorganize' the 'order' of INTERESTS & PREFERENCES so that they'll line-up in the order I picked-them!?!. If I'd wanted Male to be my primary-choice, I'd have stayed-on sites for 'gay' hook-ups. But I sought-out a 'Transgendered' site, and would-prefer to have my profile state that MtF or Female is/are my 2-primary choices... not Male. I prefer gals over guys as my prefered-companionship [ although will have sex with guys ], cause it's a 'mind-thing', as girls and girls/w dicks are still going to 'think' and 'act' like girls. I want someone that's smooth & soft, and caring & compassionate... not whose interested in his 'Monster-Truck', or what he-hunted the weekend prior!. Dave G.
Any updates on the broken search feature. I just signed up and it's extremely disappointing that I can't find anyone near me.
MG, preaching to the choir. I'm in Tampa, and 'no results' up to 500 miles either.
I just have the exact same problem. Apparently there are no matches within 500 miles of me I live in Florida that's not possible
hi how r ya? first I want to say I really would like to see a non binary gender option . I'm genderqueer. so many of us trans r nb. also I still can t figure out how to narrow search down to a location.
We are trying to diagnose the unpredictable failure of search but some users report logging off and on fixes it.
It appears that the search problem was left unresolved. Has anyone found a solution to this problem?
I tried searching in my area. Nothing shown up.
I tried broadening my search.
Nothing shown up.
How are there over 152THOUSAND members, but none of them live within 500 miles of IL???
How can I narrow search by location? I agree there should be a non binary box option . There are at least 60 different kind of gender identities n many r non binary. Androgynous can fir into non binary box.
Same problem as others. Problem with search, matches and now I cant even see any pictures on the app.
Hi! Happy New Year from New York! :D Thank you for ur Wonderful site! i have a feelin i just might meet somebody special on here :) That said, unfortunately about 50 percent of the time the search doesnt work for me (?). For instance last night, from midnight till 4am, it was fine. Then, when i tried to search again an hour later, it said "no results" no matter who, how or where i looked. No results was the response each and every time for every location on the planet. Including any of the locations where i had searched only an hour earlier and got 100s of results. i'm thinking that perhaps ur site has scheduled maintenance at that time. Anywho, if u could pls let me and others know about why this is happening i would be very grateful! :) Again thank you for providing such a great service! ;) Oh! And i too would appreciate an androgynous/ nonbinary identity option :) Take care and all the Best in 2017!!
according to this there are no profilea at all within the UK. surely that isn't right??
Our web host is not able to resolve the errors with emojis due to a database compatiblity issue so if you want to avoid the errors, avoid emojis.
Obviously they understand this is not acceptable however switching web hosts takes some time as well. Any updates will be posted under News.
Im having this error. How to correct this Exception #1478190253?
Please please please add a non-binary gender option :(
How do I find the msgs I've sent?