What is cis?  Cis is a common abbreviation for cisgender which describes a person whose gender identity corresponds with their biological sex assigned at birth.

What is trans?  Trans is a common abbreviation for transgender which describes a person whose gender identity does not correspond with their biological sex assigned at birth.

What is non binary?  Non binary describes a person whose gender identity does not fit into the traditional male or female divisions at all.

I live outside the US, why is my zip code not working? - The search function only accepts US zip codes so all other users should just leave the zip code field blank.

How do I upload more photos? - Click the Create new album link in your profile or click on the Photos menu in the top menu bar, then click the Create new album link there.  Once your album is created you can upload photos and select one as an album cover, too.

Why do some messages disappear? - Sometimes con artists target our site and we delete their messages.

How do I delete my account? - After you login click on Account then Settings and next Delete my account.