Being ts is hard enough if its not looking for a job,trying to find some kind of love life, or going to school.I am lucky enough to have a job and go to school where ppl except me for who i am but i know that is not always the case for many of my ts sisters out there i know that sometimes more often then not there are many men who just think of ts women as a fantasy or a one time fling as far as any kind of love goes its really hard for some of us to trust sometimes or facing the sad side of rejection weather it be when trying to find love, a job interview, or school so its times like these that makes me want to say to all my ts sisters out there that you are beautiful and you deserve everything your heart wants, remember that no one can bring you down unless you let them and that eventually we all find what we are looking for eventually. hugs and kisses until next time love lowlaa

I’m probably preaching to the choir here but in case anyone isn’t aware of how bad things are here is the link for the study results . http://www.thetaskforce.org/reports_and_research/ntds I posted a little about this and the link to it on my Face book page and I hope everyone here will post something about this and post the link on their face book page, Twitter, your blog or whatever else you use and try to raise peoples awareness of how bad it really is Thank you for the use of this site and allowing me to post this here in an effort to raise awareness of the problem.

Being stuck in pre-op limbo doesn't help of course - since I'm living in pretty much in stealth mode, there is the possibility of going out on a regular date with someone who knows nothing of my background but this damned physical deformity I carry around leaves me highly vulnerable - I'm referring to the gender incongruity in case you get the idea I'm some kind of mutant though I've been called worse.