There was a problem with search results for some users impacting the Search and Dashboard tabs although the Matches and Members tabs did not seem to be affected so we recommend using those as well if you run into this, but please report any problems...

UPDATE: Software and server upgrades with related interruptions have been completed.  One upgrade includes adding more memory to the server and another will lengthen session timeout values and make it easier to manage blocked and crush lists.

The site will have some more down time the next two weeks as we make more site upgrades.  One recent change was to reenable friend request confirmation, which was accidentally turned off.

We are upgrading the software that runs the site starting today.  The site will be down for several hours.  We also plan more upgrades in the next few weeks and months, we apologize for the interruption but it is needed.

UPDATE: We believe the problem is solved at least for now but please let us know if it is not resolved for you. There is a problem with search results for new logged in users.  We are investigating the problem but a work around is to search...

UPDATE: We believe the problem is solved at least for now but please let us know if it is not resolved for you. Some users have reported they are having problems logging into the site. After entering their password there is no error message but...

Feelings....... small boxes of dreams and anxieties that we open throughout life.

After my last relationship broke down, I initially decided to let love seek me out. I briefly taken a break from the adult oriented material and spent time those closest to me after being injured at work during the summer. I'm back to looking...

I was just wondering about meeting my future in-laws

Any ideas how we can get more people to use this site? For transfolk like myself I like this one more than the other dating sites except that not as many people are aware of it or use it. I myself forgot about this site after putting everything on...